Second Generation
Son of ? O'Kelley and Unknown
2.
James O'Kelly1,2
(Kelley
or O'Kelley) was born between 1738 and 1740
likely in Co Meath Ireland
and was of the O'Kelly of
Bregia. He wrote that he was born to a mother and father of common Irish descent.1,3 I
am not sure how much stock we can put in his claim, after all most modern
wealthy politicians and ministers make that same claim today even when their
parents were very well off and Rev James
O'Kelly wasn't poor by any standards of his time. W.
E. MacClenny concludes that Rev James was born in Ireland and may have been
educated there and I think MacClenny was correct because in Co Meath there
was an effort to educate native Irish to be Iterant ministers to other
native Irish to spread the protestant faith and I believed Rev James O'Kelly
may have been educated and could have ordained in Ireland and sent to America
to preach to other Irish but I think that his father also Rev James O'Kelley
was educated and ordained in Co Meath Ireland and the more famous son
learned from his father his craft. He was a Lay Minister in the Church of England
or Anglican Church
and not just anyone could do that, I doubt he could have done it if he had
been born in America or once he was
in America so I think MacClenny got it right that Rev James O'Kelly was born, educated
in his early childhood in Ireland but in the middle of his life he became an Iterant Methodist minister in Wesley movement of the Church of England
in Virginia due to the popularity and influence of his father.
The
North Carolina History Project website described Rev James as "lower
gentry" and it is claimed he became a minister
1775 when he was near 40 years of age but I suspect he substitued for her
father and was a part time when he married and he just became more famous
and well know when he was near 40 and embraced the Methodist movement as an
Iterant minister or a traveling
minister.
If he started at 40 which was late in life, how did he go from a nobody sinner to a lay
minister in the state church
in such a short period of time? If he were educated in Ireland why did
he wait so late in his life to take advantage of his education?
I think much of the story may have been manufactured to make Rev James more
acceptable as a minister but I also think the father and son were merged
into one in the retelling of the stories and there are at least two publish
sources who cause me to believe this is true.
It
is difficult to know if this is the father or the son but
I think is likely Rev James O'Kelly came to Mecklenburg VA from the Prince George Co Surry Co
border area as found in the
Vestry records for Bristol Parish of Prince George Co are found Thomas
Jefferson's grandfather also named Thomas Jefferson as well as Henry
Randolph the maternal side of Thomas Jefferson's family but there does
appear to be some connection to the Jeffersons as Captain John Farrar the
first cousin of Thomas Jefferson appears a s substitute on the Mecklenburg
Militia Roster for 19 year old Charles O'Kelley in 1779. George Crowder the father-in-law of Charles and Francis O'Kelley
was born in Prince George and he was said to have married Mary Branch also a
cousin of Thomas Jeffereson. W. E. MacClenny in his book makes the claim that Rev
James O'Kelly's father was named William but it is unclear how this
was determined, I think his grandfather was
William Kelly a
Merchant and Gentleman who died in Kells in 1748. Jan 3 1785 having
been broke way by our Revolution from the State Church of England the
Itinerant ministers ordained themselves Elders in the newly formed Methodism
Society of America, it was only at that time that Rev James gained the powers to marry, baptize, and perform communion, those
rights had been denied him by the state church.
From that time
till 1792 he rode a circuit over several different counties in
southern Virginia and Northern Carolina mostly in supervision of other
ministers. Contrary to what some think,
between 1775 and 1792 I find no evidence that he pastored a church in the
modern understanding that he moved to and lived in an area and tended to a
gathering of people on a regular basis, he road the circuit preaching in the
open air, in homes, sometimes churches that was the domain of other
ministers and in meeting houses. I believe he always lived in the area
where he died, in Chatham Co NC as that is where all known records place him
and I also believe he might not be the James Kelley that appeared on the tax rolls
in Mecklenburg Co Virginia. If anyone has any evidence that proves
otherwise I would love to see it. Revd James is mentioned in the Journals
of Revd Francis Asbury. They are published in three volumes and Rev
James and Revd Asbury appear to have their first meeting at
Cypress
Chapel July 8 1780 which I believe must be the historic
Cypress
Chapel located in Suffolk Virginia. I believe this must have been
their first face to face meeting of the two ministers because Rev Francis
Asbury gives the following account something he likely would not have given
if they had met before this time, "Here
James O'Kelly met me; he spoke, and appeared to be a good warm-hearted man".
Revd Franics Asbury had reportedly been keeping a low profile for the three
years leading up to this meeting as he took a neutral position regarding the
revolution after all he may have been a Methodist but he was an English born
minister of the Church of England which was the King's church.
Peter Jefferson Kernolde's
claim in his Book titled "Lives of Christian ministers:
over two hundred memoirs" that
Rev John
P O'Kelly,
Rev James O'Kelly,
and Rev
"Franky" Francis Dean O'Kelley descendants of
Thomas O'Kelley and Elizabeth Wyers
were also descendents of Rev James O'Kelly and I think he was right but
had the wrong Rev O'Kelley. They are grandsons and great grandsons of
Rev James O'Kelley the father of this Rev James O'Kelly. A good method to
prove this would be for a traceable
male descendent of Rev
James O'Kelly to join the
Kelley
Kelly DNA project and submit a DNA sample to learn where Rev James O'Kelly's
family originated and if he is from our O'Kelley line.
Having done considerable research of James O'Kelly I believe his
importance to the founding of our nation has not been properly recognized.
To understand his greatness one has to understand the time in which he
lived. For modern Christians it is difficult to accept the truth about
how they arrived to the beliefs that are commonly accepted today, many lies
have been accepted as truth about the origins of modern Christianity because
for almost 1400 years before the birth of Rev James O'Kelley man's only path
to God was through the state church, through the divine rule of the Kings and while
Thomas Paine, Jefferson, Washington, Adams, and Franklin may have gotten us
into the revolution in their desire to rid us of that unholy yoke, it is clear to me that it was men like Rev James
O'Kelly who won the Revolutionary War as they had the power to sway the common man to
loyalty to the King or not. At the time the war broke out and far back
to the year 325 AD, all churches were state churches a concept that is
difficult for modern man to grasp and fully understand and it is not
something his modern church will admit because to do so is admitting how
radical their religious beliefs were to our ancestors. Many of those
state church leaders packed up their church record and returned to the
safety of England and never returned when war broke out, not that it was
that great of loss, as the state church had always been corrupt with its
chief goals solely to enrich the clergy at the expense of the flock, there
is not other way to say it, the church was corrupt when King James of the
King James bible ruled, he was part of the reason it was corrupte, the
pilgrims came to America without his bible because he was the one
persecuting them and by the time Rev James lived the clergy was mostly drunks and
evil doers and while Rev James O'Kelly was a lay minister in the state
church, he preached reform yet he had no power to perform marriages,
baptize, or conduct communion, those were all duties reserved for the
bishops of the state church, the lay preachers duties were to
pay, pray, and obey so during the term of the war a great many
people became common law wed, went unbaptized, did not participate in their
once weekly communion services, these lay preachers like Rev James were the
only moral authority that existed in revolutionary America and they were
having to make it up as they went along for there had never been a Christian
example for them to follow except for that provided to them by Jesus Christ
and the Christian church hadn't followed his example in more than 1500
years. Contrary to what your minister might tell you, the protestant
faiths of today did not exists in that time, they can not truthfully trace
their history back to John the Baptist or Jesus Christ, they are all came
into existence over time beginning around the year 1500 so if not for this
new way of thinking about God, our founding fathers could not have won that
war if not for men like Rev James O'Kelly who convinced the common man that
the King was not the divine ruler appointed by God, and they did not have to
go through the state church to be received by God, they could do it one to
one and directly to God by way of Jesus Christ. What men like Rev
James did, was far more important to the success of that war than picking up
a gun and becoming a private, these men were shaping a new way of thinking
about religion and they were lending moral godly authority to actions and
goals of our founding fathers. This was a very big deal and Rev James
and his associates were in the middle of it all. Rev James was a great
man not because he may have descended from great people, he was a great man
because against all odds he had the courage and vision to take the great
personal risk and seek to create freedom and liberty in one of the most
enslaving institutions of all times, the Christian Church.
If Rev James were allowed to return today, I suspect he would be greatly
disappointed at the ignorance that is taught as main stream. In his
time, Christmas was not celebrated as the birthday of Christ. The
bible makes no mention of it, so at the founding of our nation it was not
observed and in some cases it may have still been illegal as it was in
Massachusetts in its early days. There was no taking Christ out of
Christmas because he was never in it, it was a celebration that the Roman
Catholic church established three hundred years after the death of Christ
and for the most part it was an excuse to get drunk and do all kinds of
sinful acts so the puritans prohibited it and while Rev James as a minister
in the Established State Church would have used the King James Bible because
that was the law of the land, the pilgrims did not bring that bible with
them to America, it was King James and his cursed bible they left England to
come to the new world so ignorance abounds in modern churches today about
their true founding.
For his origins most researcher look to author W. E MacClenny
and
his 1910 book "The Life and Times of Rev James O'Kelly" and MacClenny tells his readers on page 12 paragraph 2
"facts that can not be doubted" that Rev James was born in Wake County NC
and then MacClenny oddly concludes that Rev James O'Kelly was born and lived
the early part of his life in Ireland.
This is very confusing but Wake
Co did not exist at the time of Rev James
birth, it was Bertie County and when I look at where Rev James was living at
the time of his conversion, where his children were born, where he built his
church, and where he died and is buried, it seems Rev James may never have
lived in a permanent residence outside of the Wake - Chatham Co area. MacClenny also claims
that James maternal descent was as a grandson of
Rev John Chetwode
who was of English Royal blood but tells his reader that Rev James had a
hate for the English and while I find it unreasonable to claim Rev James
descends from one of the most powerful English families and he have a
dislike for the English. I find no connection between Rev James
O'Kelly and the Chetwodes.
On Pages 14, and 15 MacClenny says the
following about Rev James O'Kelly's family but McClenny got it all wrong:"William O'Kelly of Athlone, was
chief of Hy Many and after King Edward's accession to the Crown, his
Majesty, by letter to L. D. St Ledger, dated at Greenwich, 7th April,
1547, directed that "in respect of his faithful and diligent service,
done to his father and himself, he would be one of the Privy Council... From the above it is evident that the
subject of our sketch was a man of high birth on his paternal side, the
family having been identified with the vicinity of Gallagh for ages."
"On his maternal side it was equally as good,
and several members of the family took Holy Orders. In Betham's Baronetage of England With General
Tables, Vol. 3 page 124,
mention is
made of William O'Kelly of the Chetewode family, and on page 126 under
twenty-one of the family line we find 'James, who went to Virginia.' "
You may read Betham's book on line at the above link allowing you to go to the exact pages that
MacClenny references and what you will learn is the William O'Kelly of the Chetewode family that MacClenny references wasn't
and Irishman named O'Kelly but an English man who lived
hundreds of years before Rev James O'Kelly was born, he was William de Oakley or William of OKeley.
OakLey being a place in England and not a surname this William was not an
Irish O'Kelly and the "James who went to Virginia" was James Chetwode the son of Englishman Henry Chetwode and he left for Virginia
almost 90 years before Rev James was born. James Chetwode was related
to the Rev John Chetwode that MacClenny references but he was not Rev James
O'Kelly. MacClenny provides his readers no
evidence to link Rev James
O'Kelly and William O'Kelly of Athlone, Chief of Hy-Many, there were
tens of thousands of O'Kellys living in different locations in Ireland and
they did not all descend from a single O'Kelly, there has been identified at
least 10 different unrelated septs. So ask
yourself, if MacClenny, a learned man, got this so wrong how can we believe
he got any of Rev James origins correct? I feel certain Rev James was
born, lived, and died in what is modern Chatham Co NC. Every known
record places him first appearing near there, living there, and dying there. Frankly
W. E. MacClenny disappoints me, he was an educated man, a Christian man, he understood the
discipline required of research and his errors in my judgment was not only
great but I believe he intentional sought to mislead his readers about Rev
James O'Kelly's origins and it was not critical in the telling of his story,
so why did he do it? To sell books? To try to elevate his own
stature by writing a book about an otherwise great man? MacClenny's
description of Rev James O'Kelly's origins smacks of the very thing that Rev
James tried to abolish, the notion that any single man is greater than the
next, and to promote the belief that we are all in equal standing before God.
MacClenny tells his readers that Rev James was serving as a soldier during
the year of 1781 but if there are records that anyone has ever found that
confirms he served or was drafted I have not been able to find them and
because he was a follower of John Wesley and he was a Methodist I doubt he
did serve, I think his service may have been manufactured but I state plainly that what Rev James
O'Kelly contributed to the founding of our nation can not be measured
against the normal measurements of patriotism. In my opinion he need
not serve in battle to be recognized for his contribution was great, he
influenced the common people of southern Virginia and northern North
Carolina to question the commonly held belief that the King of England was
God's representative over them, that the King was their lord and master and
this was a very big deal in the time that Rev James O'Kelly lived.
This was where he was in disagreement with John Wesley as Rev James O'Kelly
believed in an independent church where the members decided for themselves
which was a very radical method of church government, one that had never
existed before his time.
Rev James lived in a time when the ministers of the state church were as a
group the wealthiest occupation in the English world,
they received a portion of the mandatory tithes. Rev James was a layman
or lay
minister of the English State Church from the time he began his ministry until Dec
24 1784 when a new society was formed
free of the state church yoke. Every church had a minister who held
services on Sunday but the Lay ministers often traveled and held their
church during the week many times under a grove of trees, in a barn, or in a
home. Ministers were the rock stars of their generation, or than horse
races, fights, dancing, drinking and sex, ministers like Rev James were
the only family form of entertainment and as such those ministers who were most
entertaining were the most popular and likely had the greatest offerings. From the descriptions of Rev James
sermons it is likely that many were drawn to him, so it is also likely a
great many O'Kelleys were named in his honor. We see this
continued today with Mega Church services more like a Rock Concert than the
traditional church service so while it may have been the promise of wealth
that drew Rev James to preach, I think his methods tell us that wealth had
no influence upon his beliefs he was seeking meaningful reform of a corrupt
church but I have also read that during his ministry Rev James O'Kelly
became a man of means, he did after all own two slaves and while some of his
wealth came from other sources, we know from the church records and that Rev
James and his wife received normal compensation for his labor on the behalf
of the English State Church. My reader should not deceive themselves
to the belief that everything Rev James O'Kelly did was a labor of love, he
was after all a man with expenses. Interesting Rev James O'Kelley Facts:
- Contrary to the claims made by J F Burnett in his 1921 book titled "Rev
James O'Kelly, A Champion of Religious Liberty" I find no
evidence that Rev James O'Kelly was high born, could read and write in
Greek and Latin, or knew anything about Christianity in the first forty
years of his life but for him to have been a lay minister in
the Church of England he likely did come from an Irish Landed Gentry
family because the sons of nobodies were not welcomed as lay ministers
in the Church of England. Most scholars seem to agree that he
was near forty when he and his family were converted and this might be
true but he might also have been educated in Ireland as a young man to
enter the priesthood. Rev James O'Kelly was an important person
in the founding of our nation, one does not have to fabricate stories to
try to make him appear greater, all they have to do is tell his true
story about what he did to help separate our new founded nation from a
state church and establish for the first time in man's history a free
Christian faith. I don't think this can be stressed enough, prior
to Rev James O'Kelly and the founding of our nation there was no
religious freedom in the Christian church and for more than 250 years
the Protestants and the Catholics had been murdering, hanging,
disemboweling, driving stakes up peoples asses, boiling them in oil and
burning them, their wives, and their children solely because they
embraced one or the other belief and for the most part they had no
choice, their religious beliefs were forced upon them by the point of a
sword in a Kings hand or the Catholic Pope and all these two groups really cared about
was
who received the forced tithes. Rev James O'Kelly and men like him
ended religious tyranny and established the religious freedoms we enjoy
today that some desire to take from us. I am of the opinion that
we dishonor our ancestors by pretending that they did not endure this
and far worse at the hands of those who claimed to be the ministers of
Christ. This was the state of the world that Rev James O'Kelly was
born into but thanks to him and others like him he left our world in a
much better place when his time was finished on this earth and that is
why he was great, he needs no high birth or education to validate his
greatness because his works stand upon their own merits and it is a
freedom that we must continue to fight to preserve today. I think
it ironic that the priest and ministers that J F Burnett makes claim
that Rev James descends were the priest and ministers Rev James O'Kelly
was so opposed. Rev James O'Kelly was the George Washington, the
Thomas Jefferson, the Benjamin Franklin of the free church government of
the Christian faith and I
believe if he were alive today he would rebuke those who seek to make
him something different. He didn't appear to challenge the
doctrine of the Church of England, only the government of the Christian
church, he believed that the church body should decide using democratic
principals while the established church of England believed the King was
the head of the church and body of the church had no authority.
- The wills indicate Rev James O'Kelly could read and write but
Elizabeth was not able to read and write and she made her mark.
Reportedly Dr James M O'Kelly
a great grandson wrote, “IT
IS SAID THAT JAMES O’KELLEY HAD A GREAT MANY MANUSCRIPTS IN HIS HOME AT
THE TIME OF HIS DEATH, AND NO DOUBT THEY WERE VALUABLE DOCUMENTS, BUT
HIS WIFE HAD LIVED IN THE CONTENTION ABOUT CHURCH GOVERNMENT SO LONG,
AND HAD HEARD SO MUCH ABOUT IT, THAT AFTER HIS DEATH SHE SAID SHE WANTED
PEACE FROM THE QUESTION, AND SO SHE COLLECTED THESE MANUSCRIPTS
AND PUT
FIRE TO THEM IN ORDER THAT FURTHER CONTENTION MIGHT BE AVOIDED.”
Source
- Rev James was reportedly anti-slavery but the 1820 Census indicate
that both he and his son
William owned four slaves each. He may have owned them to keep the
families together. Having a good master in 1820 was often better
than being free solely because a free black could be enslaved over the
flimsiest excuse. In the Mecklenburg Co Virginia Deed book 6 on
page 471 Feb 8 1783 James OKelly sets free his 35 year old slave named
Dianna which is very likely the
Dinah Pilgrim mentioned in the will of the wife of Rev James.
- Rev James may have outlived three of his sons. William died in
1820 and no further mention is made in the records of James and
Thomas but a Thomas Killey does appear in the 1780 NC Census in the area
of Chatham Co NC.
- John was likely not first born and may have lived away from his family as
records for a John O'Kelly who is given as a teacher is found in
Charlestown, may have married late, and died without any children.
- The 1820 Censes show Rev James and William living near or next to
each other as William appears on the line above James.
- The male line of the Rev James P O'Kelly appear to be few in
number, there were
very few male heirs that survived their birth and to date I have found
only a couple living.
- Rev James was near forty years of age when he began his ministry.
Nothing is known of him before his ministry, no one truely knows when or
where he was born or who his parents were.
- He reportedly was a friend of Thomas Jefferson and Patrick Henry, the
Jefferson name appears often in the name of descendants but I have found
nothing that proves he knew either man. It was very common in
those days for families to name their children after famous people, it
was believed some of their good fortune may rub off on a child so named.
The names George Washington, Benjamin Franklin and Francis Marion all
appear in my family and that is not proof that my family knew any of
these men so a great deal may have been read into the naming of William
Jefferson, a great many myths have been created about Rev James O'Kelly. I have found many children named William Jefferson in
that time so if I were to guess I would suspect William was named for an
ancestor, maybe a maternal ancestor named William Jefferson or Rev James
father may have been William Jefferson O'Kelly. Given that at
the time of William Jefferson's birth Thomas Jefferson was a young
student at William and Mary College and had not yet come into any famous
reputation I think it is unlikely Thomas Jefferson could have been the
source for William Jefferson O'Kelly's name and the name William does
not seem to appear in the family of Thomas Jefferson so I think a story
has been created around the naming of William Jefferson that has no
truth.
- Most all written works spell his last name with a single "e" but his
gravestone which was put up about 20 years after his burial displays his
name with two "e"s. I doubt he every signed his name
with two "e" but the same can be said about every O'Kelley
living in that time, they all appeared to have added the O' back to
Kelly at about the same time in American history.
- Maybe the most startling revelation is none of Rev James O'Kelly's
children, grandchildren, or great grandchildren appear to have become ministers in the
church he created. If book author Peter Kernolde was correct in
his claim then three of his Rev James great nephews embraced his beliefs
two to three decades after his death.
- Harold O'Kelley quotes MacClenny describing Rev James as "had the temper
and temperament of the Scots Irish" which I take as meaning he wasn't
always an easy person to be around.
- Rev James O'Kelly's DAR
Ancestor #:A085955
but I find no documents that prove any of the stories attributed to is
service in that war. Even MacClenny states that he could find no documents, so
if he did serve, where are his records? Having said that, I think
he provided a greater contribution to our founding fathers in that he
persuaded the common man to break with the state church and I think few
people alive today truly understand or appreciate how uniquely rare such
beliefs were.
- W E MacClenny makes the claim on page 17 that in his
early life James was a "Champion fighter" and a fiddler. Irish
were very fond of fiddle music and their Knights were called Champions
and they loved to fight.
MacClenny also tells us that upon his conversion at about the age of
39 James laid his fiddle on the fire and burned it. This is in
contrast to the description author and minister
J F Burnett claims of MacClenny.
The
Life of James O'Kelly by W E MacClenny - Select pages
relating to his ancestry and genealogy.
Elon University James O'Kelly Collection
1977 Booklet by
Descendents of Rev James O'Kelly provides additional documentation for
four sons.
Rev James O'Kelly, in 1775 was a Lay
Minister with the established
Church of England. He embraced the teachings of John Wesley and in 1785
joined the newly formed Methodist Society in the wake of the vacuum created
by the defeat of the Britiish during our revolution. The early
Methodist continued to seek the church government that the Kings of England
imposed upon the Christian church and Rev James favored a local democratic
form of church government and in familie to seek the reform of the Methodist
he broke and formed the Christian
Church in 1792 in Chatham CO, NC. A James Kelley appears in 1769 NC Census,
I suspect this was James and he never moved from the Chatham Co area. James appeared in the census in 1820 in Chatham CO, NC.4
showing he owned 4 slaves (see below).

He died Oct 16, 1826 and was buried in Chatham CO, NC.6 Rev James
gravestone bears O'Kelley as his last name
but it is reported the monument was erected in 1854 in a time when the
O'Kelley spelling of our name was well established. MacClenny wrote
in 1910 that there were no dates on his marker Peter
Jefferson Kernolde displays a photo of this marker on the front of
his book and one can clearly see the dates were not there so they
were added sometime later. Kernolde on page 33 of his book
displays the inscription except he misspells the last name as
O'Kelly and it is clearly engraved O'Kelley.
Family
Pedigree of Rev James O'Kelly |
1820 United States Federal Census
Name: James Okelly
County: Chatham
State: North Carolina
Enumeration Date: August 7, 1820
Free White Males - 45 and over: 1
Free White Females - 45 and over: 1
Number of Persons - Engaged in Agriculture: 1
Slaves - Males - 14 thru 25: 1
Slaves - Males - 45 and over: 1
Slaves - Females - 14 thru 25: 1
Slaves - Females - 45 and over: 1
Free White Persons - Over 25: 2
Total Free White Persons: 2
Total Slaves: 4
Total All Persons - White, Slaves, Colored, Other: 6
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Will of James O'Kelly; pg. 125 (384), of Vol. B, (1818-1833) Chatham Co., NC Wills Microfilm # C.022.8001, NC State Archives In the name of God Amen, I James O'Kelly of Chatham, State of North Carolina being in soundness of mind, do constitute this my last will and testament cordially and solemly according? to the true and honest intentions of these premises.
First as to my and body and soul God being the former of my body and the father of my spirit I surrender them at his call. My body to the earth from whence it came and soul to God who give it in full assurance of a
resurrection and comfortable hope of acceptance. As to my temporal property it is my will to dispose of it as follows - Item. I give and bequeath unto my son
John O'Kelly five dollars and what he has already received to him and hi heirs forever. Item. I give and bequeath unto the Heirs of my son
William O'Kelly, deceased ten dollars and what they have already received to them and their heirs forever. Item, I give and bequeath unto my dere and loving wife Elizabeth O'Kelly after my last debts are paid every cents worth of property of every kind horses Hoggs Cattle Sheep household and kitchen furniture plantation utensils Monies Bonds note of hand to the Cash --- ? of property at her own disposal forever If a free man hath a right to doe what he will with his Own. I constitute this my last will and testament. Moreover I appoint John Moring Sr. Executor to this my last will and testament in witness whereof I have set my hand and assigned my seal this twenty sixth day of April, 1826 Jas. O'Kelly Test. John Moring Jr. Willis Moring Proved November Session 1826
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James O'Kelley and Elizabeth Meeks it is claimed were married on 25 June 1759 in Surry CO.3
I suspect they were married in the Chatham Co Area and never lived in Surry
Co Virginia. Elon claim they lived in Surry Co VA in 1760 but I don't think
that can be proven. It is also claimed they lived in Mecklenburg Co,
VA in 1785–17973 but I
have doubts that he or his family actually lived in Mecklenburg Co, I
suspect he rode is circuit for a period of time then went home to Wake or
Chatham then returned and while he certainly preached I suspect that much of
his duties was to supervise those who did live in Mecklenburg Co VA. James and Elizabeth3 lived in Chatham CO, NC in 1797.3
Webmasters comment: I suspect the 1759 marriage date given by Elon
University was manufactured by a researcher based upon John being older than
William and William was born in 1863. I have found no records for the
marriage and I suspect they were likely married in 1762 making Elizabeth 17.
I think William was the first born son. Elizabeth Meeks was born
between 1740 and 1744 possibly in Surry Co.3 She signed a will on 4 September 1832 in Chatham CO, NC.7 She died in 1833.3
Will of Elizabeth O'Kelly
pg. 249,250 (445) of Vol. B, (1818-1833) Wills of Chatham Co., NC Microfilm # C.002.8001, NC State Archives
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In the Name of God Amen I Elizabeth O'Kelly of chatham county and state of North Carolina, Being in soundness of mind do constitute this my last will and Testament cordially and solemly, according to the true and honest intention of these premises. First as to my body and soul God being the former of my body and the father of my spirit I surrender them at him will my body to the earth from whence it came and my soul to God who gave it in full assurance of a resurrection and a comfortable hope of acceptance. As to my my temporal property, it is my will to dispose of as follows to wit, Item, I give to Dinah Pilgrim two hundred dollars as (I?) rather leave
Note - (Dinah Pilgrim was one of the slaves that James OKelly set free Feb 8
1783 in Mecklenburg.) it in the hands of my Executor to put it out on Intrust for her to live on as, he sees she stands in need of. Also, I lend her a pare of cards and wheal one big trot pail and pigins and tubs flat irons coffee mill a half dozen little plaits (plates) two dishes a case of knives and forks two basens and net trunks sugar bon? (bowl?) and coffee pot, during her natural life and at her death, if any be left it is to come back after paying those for the trouble they will be at for keeping her and be divided as I shall now name. |
Item, I give to my son John O'Kelly one dollar and what he has already received to him and his heirs forever. Item, I give and bequeath to Josiah Atkins one dollar and what he has already received to him and his heirs forever after my just dets are paid it is my will and desire that ll my property moneys in hand notes and a accounts be divided equally between Mary E. O'Kelly, John McCauley, Franklin O'Kelly, Leslie O'Kelly heirs one share, Lucinda Anderson William J. O'Kelly, James T. Barbee Thomas J. Fowler Vilina B. O'Kelly Mary T. Bilbo and Molsey Massey, If a free woman has a wright to do what she pleases with her own. I constitute this my last will and Testament Moreover I appoint Franklin O'Kelly Executor to this my last will and Testament In witness whereof I have hereunto set my hand affirmed my seal this September the 4th, 1832 Alfred Moring Henry Moring Elizabeth O'Kelly (X her mark) The foregoing last will and Testament of Elizabeth O'Kelly decd, was duly proven in open court at May Term 1833 by the Oath of Alfred Moring a subscribing witness thereto and ordered to be recorded whereupon Franklin O'Kelly the Executor therein named appeared in open Court and
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The wills of both James and Elizabeth make it clear that John was somehow
outside the family circle. James appoints John Moring Sr as the
executive of his will and Elizabeth also skips John and named her grandson
Franklin as her executive. John received from his father five dollars
and from his mother one dollar with the bulk going to William's widow and
her adult children. John's children are not remembered by the descendants of
William so clearly there is more to the family of Rev James O'Kelly than is
known. James O'Kelley and Elizabeth Meeks had the following children
and since I have no dates of birth I have used the naming custom in the time
they were born to arrange their order:
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William Jefferson O'Kelly.
Contrary to what many believe, William was likely the eldest son.
I base my belief on the naming customs of the Irish where normally the
first born son is named after the paternal grandfather, the second son
after maternal grandfather
and the third after his father. We know much about William, he being the eldest he would have
held such a place in the family. We know very little about John,
he being a secondary son of less importance that seems natural but we also know nothing
about the other two sons which may also be an indicator that William was the favored first born.
According to W E MacClenny
William was named after his paternal grandfather, William O'Kelley
something the Irish reserved for the first born son. I suspect the
only reason William is believed to be younger than John is because of MacClenny's statement
about the order of the sons in Rev James O'Kelley's will but William isn't actually listed in
his father's will as a person, his name is used in place of naming
each of his heirs so it seems natural the sole
living son would be listed first and children of a deceased son
listed second. William died first and John married late all
indications that William could be the oldest and John may have been much
younger than William. I am unaware of any
evidence that supports William was second born?
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John Franklin O'Kelly.
Likely named after a maternal grandfather. |
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James O'Kelly Jr 23
born probably about 1766 or 1767.
Alethea Jane Macon reported in her book that
James Jr. paid a poll tax
with Rev James and brother William in Virginia as late as 1786. |
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iv. | Thomas O'Kelly23
born 1771 |
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